At work my bubble is smaller because closer quarters. And in public events it's smaller. It's super small when I'm drinking. I still don't like people touching me unless I know them really well. I find it really weird if they touch me. But my home? It's the entire property. I do not want people over. They pop my serene relaxing bubble. It's a huge pet peeve. Unless I say come over, then don't just show up. Don't call me and say "hey i'm coming over" or "Hey i'm in town want me to come over?" you're inviting yourself. The boyfriend is bad about inviting people over and not telling me. Or his little brother just shows up. It's a bother for me.