Lito's Arc EP 3
It's definitely played for laughs, but yeah, it is unsettling for exactly the reasons you outline. It's a shame, because by all accounts she seems nice, even if she has no clue what personal space is. If she was a man, this would definitely be portrayed as different.
Hernando and Lito are very cute. I like Hernando because of the glasses, really. I still find it weird that they'd allow her to watch them have sex, but each to their own, I guess. His arc is definitely the lightest of them so far, probably because he's hardly interacted with the other characters yet.