Do you consider yourself...

[FFNut]

Do you consider yourself either Handsome or good looking? I was thinking about this today after witnessing a guy getting shot down bye a very beautiful woman. He asked her if she would like to go out with a ruggedly handsome man where she replied it's not up to you to consider if you are handsome or not. So I was wondering EOFF. Do you consider yourself handsome and/or good looking?

[starlet]

Depends on the day. Some people on these forums have been putting the idea in my head that I might be though

[Psychotic]

Everyone I've invited to extended sleepovers in my basement has said I'm handsome. Sometimes it takes a few months for them to realise my beauty - merely hours if I blast songs from Sesame Street at an ear splitting volume at them for some reason - but they always get there in the end. Yes sirree, Final Fantasy forums are a great way to make new friends.

[Pike]

Nope

[Pheesh]

I'm not too sure, and I'm not ashamed to say it's a question that plays on my mind often (although less so ever since I've been in a relationship because she seems to think I am which is all that really matters). I think that my physique puts me out of the running for straight up, one glance hotness. I'm quite skinny and have never really put in any effort to change that. So that leaves general presentation and facial features, which is where I honestly don't know because, I mean, I've been staring at the same face in the mirror all my life. Things that may stick out as either attractive or unattractive look like the most normal facial features in the world to me. There are some things that I objectively feel good about, appearance wise; I keep my hair presentable and style it well, I have a nice smile and take good care of my teeth, my facial hair is still a bit on the bum fluff side of things but it suits me even now and can only get better, and I don't have any major blemishes and am not prone to outbreaks of pimples. So that just leaves stuff like jaw-line and bone structure and all that other stuff that I honestly have no idea about, and honestly I think that stuff isn't easily definable anyway. There's no set measure for what any one person will find attractive.

Also, this isn't physical attractiveness, but my confidence goes through the roof if I know someone has seen me play drums or something. I'm confident in my ability to impress while doing that so naturally I feel more attractive in the eyes of someone who has just seen me do the thing I do best. I'm sure everyone has something like that though.

[Aulayna]

Not in the slightest. I am incredibly insecure about the way I look, to the point I often feel physically sick if I see photos of myself.

[Crop]

Sure do!

[SammieBabe]

I think I'm cute, but that's about it. My face is pretty, but the rest of me leaves something to be desired.

[Pumpkin]

No, not really. I'm not the ugliest thing but I could certainly look better

[Fynn]

I think my face looks pretty okay, and I have heard people tell me I am handsome (aside from my wife, it's mostly men, strangely enough). My body requires some work, but I still feel pretty comfortable about it. In general, I feel comfortable in my skin, and I think that's what matters the most.

[blackmage_nuke]

Depends on the angle you look at

[Night Fury]

I think I used to be better looking than I am now, but I also care a lot less if people find me attractive or not. I think I have better qualities in myself that I would rather they admire, like my sense of humour or that I'm smart.

Basically this.

[Shauna]

Night Fury has it right for my own feelings too. Also she quoted Grey's Anatomy which makes it even more right.

[Chris]

Yes. I think (and know) that I am handsome. If you feel, and know and accept this, don't be shy or falsely modest about it. Embrace it, and enjoy the compliments.

[Kalevala]

I don't think I'm hideous but as far as self-esteem goes I definitely play it up a lot. I certainly don't think I'm as good looking as I'll occasionally jokingly let on.