Let me give it to you straight you'll have many many girlfriends until you settle down inside as an mature individuall and are willing to work through a real relationship . This wont be happening for you or your laddies for quite some time. AS you get older you'll understand better what qualities you need in a female and what qualities you wont need in life. Or what you'll actaully want later in life. At 13 though, you choose others because they are nicer.....you arent ready yet .

Heck just have fun. If the relationship that you are in means alot to you then dont break it off.