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Thread: How many times should a guy say "I love you" to his girlfriend?

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    I'd almost be offended by Devil Boy's 'philosophies' if he wasn't lying through his milk teeth.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fire_of_avalon View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Devil Man
    About 2 years ago I was with this totally hot chick. She was tall, blonde, blue-eyed and had a great rack.
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    ... but she had tiny fun-bags

    So she had to be dumped. Devil Man blames Mother Nature.
    Contradictory? Check plus.

    My memory's a little hazy, but when I think hard on it, I am sure they were very tiny.

    Or... maybe they were big...

    See! Hazy memory!

    But they were definetly great while they lasted, that much is certain! So, yeah, they were a great rack!

    Quote Originally Posted by Lindy View Post
    I'd almost be offended by Devil Boy's 'philosophies' if he wasn't lying through his milk teeth.
    'tis all true, I swear to Mother Nature!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Martyr View Post
    In case you ever "get on?"

    I'm not sure where that;'s coming from, but telling a girl that you"Love Her" means you're trying for a very serious relationship.

    It could get you dumped really quick if you start that crap too early, or, worse, it could cause her to really fall in love with you. And doing that kind of emotional damage to your gf never enhances the relationship.
    He said "get ONE" not get on. :P

    Well, to me it's not about saying it, but more about showing it because talk is cheap. However, it is always nice to say it once in a while because well, you never know if you're going to wake up the next day or not. My boyfriend and I tell each other we love each other every night before we sign off, sometimes even while we're still talking for the night, and to me...that's perfect. I don't want to hear it every five seconds and then have him not show it because then I don't really feel like it's true. I know he does mean it though, and that's what matters

    EDIT: Devil Man, after reading your posts, I'm beginning to believe you never had a girl. What kind of girl in her right mind would date a guy to be treated mean? Then you go and cheat on your girlfriend with her...I'm sorry but to be honest, if I found out my boyfriend was doing that, I'd slap him...and he knows it.

    I really can't speak for all girls when I say this, only for those of us who are normal. Us girls prefer getting treated like a Princess over getting treated like a dog for the simple reason that this isn't back in the day when women were property. We birth your children, we cook for you, we clean up after you...and we get you pizza in the bitter cold. We don't have to do these things but we do them because we love you. We only want love in return, not "I'm breaking up with you because your "fun-bags" aren't big enough for my liking, so get out." No. If a girl finds that attractive, she needs to be checked out by a shrink.

    So for those of you guys out there who find it proper to be mean to your girls and not show them any true love at all, don't pursue a relationship. It's wrong of you to do something like that and I happen to know that all of the girls I know would definantly break up with you right away.
    Last edited by ~*~Celes~*~; 11-08-2006 at 05:35 PM.

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    LOADS!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miriel View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Zante View Post
    Once is enough imho.
    Once. Ever?!
    There realy is no reason to keep repeating it, unless the other person is realy forgetfull or something.

    Also, if s/he realy meant it, the other should be able to tell that without the need to say it anyways.

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    Don't say it unless you really, really mean it.

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    Someone told me a story about a couple who had been married for 30 years, but the husband never told the wife he loved her. One day she was fed up and confronted him about it, and he replied "I told you I loved you when we got married. If I change my mind I'll let you know."

    Say it if you feel like it. "Love" is overused and abused anyway, whoever is on the receiving end will get over it if you say it or not. If "love" has a special meaning to you make sure you know what it is, so you can tell her if she ever asks. Not something to stress about unless you are going to get married. Love is better when shown through actions rather than words.

    Lots of the advice in this thread is quite good, I won't reiterate further.

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    Everyday

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    When you're in love with someone, you want to vocalize those feelings for that person. Of course in a serious relationship, both parties involved should know that they love each other through their actions moreso than through words, but if you really care about someone, why not tell them that whenever you want to? And for most couples who are really in love, they want to say it. And really, if you feel that saying it only once is enough, there's gotta be some issues there about opening up and really committing to a relationship.

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    The question, howerer was how many times you "should" say it, as in how many times it is required, and that would be only once in my oppinion. Nothing wrong with saying it more often if ya feel like it.

    Someone told me a story about a couple who had been married for 30 years, but the husband never told the wife he loved her. One day she was fed up and confronted him about it, and he replied "I told you I loved you when we got married. If I change my mind I'll let you know."

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    Been married for 16 years, I say it a couple times everyday

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    A couple of times is good enough I guess.

    Devil Man. Stfu.

    Is anyone else supecting Devil Man and sephirothishere are one and the same...?

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    What about when I have a boyfriend!?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Magus of Zeal View Post
    Devil Man. Stfu.

    No my good sir...

    I am of the opinion that it should be YOU who should STFU.

    And my opinion is often correct.

    And it is often correct on these matters because I am a stud.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Devil Man View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Magus of Zeal View Post
    Devil Man. Stfu.

    No my good sir...

    I am of the opinion that it should be YOU who should STFU.

    And my opinion is often correct.

    And it is often correct on these matters because I am a stud.
    Opinions can't be correct.

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