dumped during sex! who does this?

[Luara]

This might get closed... but whatever.

Yesterday, hard to believe, but my ex boyfriend dumped me at the worst possible time. We didn't actually have sex, but we were like 2 seconds away from it when he told me he liked me as a "best friend." Everybody at my school is pissed off at him. I'm upset, but yeah, it's not that big of a deal. Apparently he does this frequently. (?)

And then he still tried to have sex with me after he dumped me. So this morning I saw him and he asked me if I was mad at him (WTF does he think... he burned too many brain cells...) so I wrote him a really long note during 1st hour and gave it to him before 2nd hour explaining things to him, and he said he was trying to "hug me." ...whatever...

So, has anything like this ever happened to you? Have you ever done this? Know of anyone who's been in a situation? Seriously... who does this crap...

Sounds like he was taking you for a real ride. He probably wanted to see how far he could get without commitment. If it's happened before, he might be doing this to see if he can get some action without any emotion behind it.

Jerk.

Anyway, on topic, it's never happened to me, and personally, I would never have gotten that far with a girl I had no interest for in a relationship. I never even flirt with someone that I would not want to date, and besides, sex isn't important to me in a relationship. I would much rather date someone and just spend time with her than have sex.

He's right.

[BardTard]

Apparently he does this frequently.

You should have done your research before making him your boyfreind then.

Umm. I kind of knew that before we dated. I just didn't really care. The past few weeks I've been too depressed to care about things. I just wanted to be happy... he was always the person to cheer me up but I figured something like that would happen... lol

[Sylvie]

At least he didn't scream "I THINK WE SHOULD SEE OTHER PEOPLE" during his big finish.

lol

[RiseToFall]

So let me get this straight. This guys:

-dates a girl
-gets her in bed
-puts on a condom
-decides to dump a girl
-still wants sex

It seems to me he should change around his strategy if he actually wants to get laid.

[Shlup]

Eh, I've heard worse. I'd say you got off kinda easy. At least now you can be pissed at him and think he's retarded rather than weeping over being dumped by a dream boat.

[Araciel]

At least he didn't scream "I THINK WE SHOULD SEE OTHER PEOPLE" during his big finish.

lol

seconded. hilarious

seriously, this is the weirdest thing i'v ever heard of...but then i don't understand relationships.

[edczxcvbnm]

I can't believe that was taken seriously.

EDIT: Looks like both posts got B-eleted!111

[Yamaneko]

Doesn't really belong here, ed, regardless of its nature.

[edczxcvbnm]

Doesn't really belong here, ed, regardless of its nature.

I could go into how what Roto said was about the same thing and thus it should be deleted as well and just derail the thread...but I just can't stop laughing at that kind of situtation XD

[Moon Rabbits]

Never happened to me before.

[Paro]

I've had girls ask me out during sex. That's not fair either, how do you say no to that!

[Jebus]

Never had a girlfriend, or had sex. I win! Next!

Seriously though. That's the first time I've heard of something like that, and I've heard my share of breakup stories. People are so strange.

[NorthernChaosGod]

If I were him, I would have:

1. Sex
2. Dump

In that order.

Same.

But no, never been in that situation.

[Anaisa]

Apparently he does this frequently.

You should have done your research before making him your boyfreind then.

Umm. I kind of knew that before we dated. I just didn't really care. The past few weeks I've been too depressed to care about things. I just wanted to be happy... he was always the person to cheer me up but I figured something like that would happen... lol

OH! Your original post made it seem as if it came as a surprise to you.

[Schala]

I had a boyfriend say that he wanted to break up, have sex with me, then bring up breaking up again afterwards. I realize the mistake I made there, but oh well. Live and learn.