Love-heartaches fascinate me...

[Peter_20]

Yeah, I think we've all experienced this horrible situation before: you have feelings for someone, and that someone might even be someone you don't know that well (you might just like the person's looks and his/her way of acting), and then you find out about his/her not returning your feelings, and your whole life becomes hell.
This is, IMO, pretty interesting - I mean, consider the scenario: your life is basically "indirectly controlled" by this single person, and the person's mere existence might make you stop eating, stop doing your homework, stop spending time with your friends, stop everything.
All of this just because of some person you have a sad crush on.
It's like a disease, a very serious disease.

I've luckily only had one serious heartache before, and that was for this girl whom I had known for 12 years: I'd had feelings for her all the time, and obviously they were mutual back then, but I was too shy all the time; and then I asked her out, but she was already "taken".
This was a terrible shock for me, and my life was pure hell for some time - I usually recover pretty fast, though, so I only felt crap for about one week.
Still I definitely don't wish to experience it again.

During high school I found out about this girl that felt very strong feelings for me, and she seemed affected in all sorts of ways: her whole life was "twisted", you could say, and she always seemed a bit sad.
Still sadder she became when I told her about my not returning her feelings, and then it was really obvious that she'd start crying at any moment.
We didn't know each other really well either, we were just classmates and tended to talk to each other every now and then, and still her life seemed hell - because of my existence, one could say.

I find this extremely fascinating, it's both cruel and cool all at once.
It's amazing how greatly you can affect someone's life just by... existing!

[Christmas]

You seems to be a woman magnet or something.

[Bunny]

I like playing with heartstrings.

[Owen Macwere]

Yes, I have loved someone and she didn't return my feelings which were horribly great that I couldn't do many things in my life without losing my touch, studies, work and even sleeping and eating. Now I think of it, it was stupid. :rolleyes2
The good part is that she loves me now like or maybe more than I love her. I think I have magic. lol

[Chakan the forever man]

I love me. have I ever broken my own heart or let myself down? A couple of times.

[Peter_20]

You seems to be a woman magnet or something.

Whence did that come from, all of a sudden?

Anyway, I live in a really small village where most girls are abroad and some of them have moved to America, which I must say is quite a desired country in my hometown; so it's hard to know whether I'm some "woman-magnet" or not.

[Jowy]

It ing sucks.

[Tifa Valentine]

People will effect your school, social life, work and health only if you let them. If you make them you #1 priority and put so much energy into them (thinking about them, talking about them, dreaming, masturbating , etc) then suddenly being turned down can be pretty devastating. I used to do it all the time in my pre and early teens.

But, then I realized no guy is worth crying and obsessing over because there are way too many men out there waiting in line and life's too short to go through all of them. Not to say you can't settle down one day. If you ever meet someone interesting enough who shares a good portion of your views and is able to keep you on your toes and the relationship exciting, why not?

Love is exciting and comes with both good and bad experiences. But, a lot of young people (and I'm not talking bad on every youth because I'm not that old, yet! I just turned 20) often make the mistake of turning their partner or a simple crush into their idol.

[black orb]

>>> Love-heartaches, never happened to me since i have never been able to love anyone..

[eternalshiva]

black orb /huggles That's sad ; ;

Body reacts weird when you crush on someone, takes over your life and your thoughts. I personally think it's unhealthy lol

[bipper]

Love makes you look at someone differently; simply cause it gives you a reprise from thinking and careing soley of/for yourself.

[Renmiri]

black orb /huggles That's sad ; ;

Body reacts weird when you crush on someone, takes over your life and your thoughts. I personally think it's unhealthy lol

Love makes you look at someone differently; simply cause it gives you a reprise from thinking and careing soley of/for yourself.

QFT. Definitely not healthy if it's unrequited but what can you do ? It's not like you can chose to fall in love only with the right persons... :rolleyes2

You can however, see who are the jerks that love to play with someone else's heartstrings and stay the hell away from them. This way you will never be their plaything

[Bunny]

:( black orb /huggles That's sad ; ;

Body reacts weird when you crush on someone, takes over your life and your thoughts. I personally think it's unhealthy lol

Love makes you look at someone differently; simply cause it gives you a reprise from thinking and careing soley of/for yourself.

QFT. Definitely not healthy if it's unrequited but what can you do ? It's not like you can chose to fall in love only with the right persons... :rolleyes2

You can however, see who are the jerks that love to play with someone else's heartstrings and stay the hell away from them. This way you will never be their plaything :)

Did you just call me a jerk?

[Renmiri]

Did you just call me a jerk?

Huh.. No. I thought you were kidding in your post.

But yeah, to me people who like to play with someone else's lovesick feelings are jerks

[bipper]

Did you just call me a jerk?

Huh.. No. I thought you were kidding in your post.

But yeah, to me people who like to play with someone else's lovesick feelings are jerks

So yes, she did. And I agree. But you are a bunny, which makes this beastiality, and like a monkey once told me, ok- some come here bunny. (lol double entendre.)