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    Quote Originally Posted by Giggles View Post
    You're so right Big! I mean, it made me realize how far past that I've come in the last three years. I don't feel upset that he e-mailed me, I don't feel...anything. I just really couldn't care less because I've moved so far beyond that. And obviously he didn't get closure on the way he treated me and ended our relationship! Ha! It's just so weird!

    ps: Goodluck with your ex at the party!!
    You go gurl! *Snaps fingers*

    Haha she wasn't really an ex, just a girl who thought she could have her cake and eat it, too. But thanks, anyway!
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    It's only happened once like a year ago. And she was trying to reach my mom. No idea why, but she sounded bored. I made up and excuse and hung up cause she'd talk for a really long time if I let her. I don't know if she ever got in contact with my mom or not, but I didn't go home that weekend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SomethingBig View Post
    You go gurl! *Snaps fingers*
    Hahahaha :D That made my day!

    I feel like I really grew up in the moment I realized I had really, truly moved on!

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    Clearly myspace is the source of all problems.

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    I usually like talking to exes after all the hurt is gone.. If they are nice it gives closure. And if he still is a jerk, I just feel sooo happy I got over him
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    And if he still is a jerk, I just feel sooo happy I got over him
    Yes :D I think that's what my e-mail showed me! That he hasn't grown up and I have! I am tempted to respond to say something like "Hi, my life is wonderful! Thanks for asking! I'm so in love and happier than I've ever been. I hope you can get past your issues and have a good life."

    But I think no response is probably the better way to go.

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    Giggles, I'm sorta in the same predicament myself.. I wouldn't call her my ex per say, just some older college T.A I was having an affair with three years back..Anyhow she turned out to be something else and so I checked myself into HeartBreak Hotel for few months duration...




    Now the past is behind me I don't really care three hoots and a monkey about her, but she every so often texts me and chats me up as if nothing on earth happened!

    Plus the gall of it all is that she supposedly on of the most well liked and popular person around... It still irriates me when someone mentions her... But I bite my tongue and compliment about her work achievements rather than how she us the Lying Gorgon of a Woman who probably has slept with most of the Male Faculty and the Janitorial staff...


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    Oh Rodarian, that's just awful! Why is it that horrible cheating sex-fiend liars always end up being loved by the general population?

    I say you tell her as kindly as possible that even though you enjoy these little chats, you don't care, even a little. Maybe that will help!

    I'm glad I'm not alone in this bizarre situation! Three years? Who talks to someone after breaking their heart THREE years ago? It's just plain weird.

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    Nope but I've been hanging out with one of my friends all week and we ran into two of his exes, both of whom playfully abused him much to my amusement.
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    Nope. No matter how mutual or eminent the break up is, none of my exes ever wants to talk to me after. It kind of sucks, but I'm used to people coming and going out of my life rapidly that I would be more surprised if they stuck around. C'est la vie.

    But that might be because I'm always the one doing the breaking up...
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    I think I'm on pretty good terms with my exes now! I'm not bitter at any of them anymore!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Giggles View Post
    Oh Rodarian, that's just awful! Why is it that horrible cheating sex-fiend liars always end up being loved by the general population?

    I say you tell her as kindly as possible that even though you enjoy these little chats, you don't care, even a little. Maybe that will help!

    I'm glad I'm not alone in this bizarre situation! Three years? Who talks to someone after breaking their heart THREE years ago? It's just plain weird.
    Quote Originally Posted by rubah View Post
    I think I'm on pretty good terms with my exes now! I'm not bitter at any of them anymore!
    Whats strange is that she been doing that since after I checked myself out of heartbreak..I know for a fact that she is dating some "Geneva Guy" and while I happily non commited to anyone.

    Another prob is I'm actually nice of a guy so I reply in a civil manner...



    I only have one ex whom I still keep in touch with. She is my soul mate and I am her. The sad bit is that desnity will no longer allow us to be together longer than we did... Oh Jackie, my Muse , My Goddess....


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    My ex said he wanted to be friends after he broke up with me and then got upset when I was still hurting a week after he broke up with me, and he couldn't understand why I was still upset, so he was quite a jerk to me. So, Alan and I logged into his myspace and changed it up a little

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    Quote Originally Posted by ~*~Celes~*~ View Post
    So, Alan and I logged into his myspace and changed it up a little
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    I received a similar message from an ex-girlfriend of mine who contacted me via Facebook roughly two years after we broke up. She attempted to whitewash the entire relationship and its problems and asked after me. She wanted me to reply to the message to let her know how I was doing but I have no regrets that I felt sufficiently cold to not reply at all as the message just made me quite angry. After all, I rather liked not having to deal with her and I found her message to be intrusive and annoying.
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