I know these sorts of things exist, but fortunately I avoid them on the internet and don't experience them in real life. My friends and I have discussed controllers in the past, and when opinions differ then they differ and that's it. We go "this is why" and then "oh yeah I understand that/ I don't get that but ok"

Is it really that big a deal for some people to be right? I suppose I'd lose my at someone if they were wrong for thinking it's a big deal, which kind of makes me just as bad