Yeah this kind of bugs me. I don't care if people drink, but I hate being treated like a weirdo because I don't drink often. I drink like twice a year, maybe 3 or 4, and not because I'm actively trying to avoid it but because I just have no urge to drink. I get in the mood sometimes, but most of the time I would rather drink something else because there are a good number of beverages that I prefer the taste of over alcohol. But when someone offers me a drink and I say no thank you, or they find out how often I drink, they treat me like I just told them I once sold my cat for magic beans. Then I get a lot of "Ohmygosh why??!?!" Because I don't...feel...like it? Is that really so strange?