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All You're Ever Gonna Be Is Mean

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noxious.sunshine
, 09-17-2013 at 07:56 PM (1039 Views)
(I hate Taylor Swift, btdubs)

So I was talking to a really close friend last night on Skype and normally we get along fine ... Until he starts going on about how I want him sooooo bad and blah blah blah (and I'm like "Babe. You're wayyyy too preppy and conceited and arrogant for me. Sorreh. I still heart you, but no."), then he gets on my nerves and I have to tell him to shut up.

But then he said something about how "I'm stupid".

And it kinda really pissed me off even though he apologized a -lot- and we eventually made up.

I know I'm not always the brightest crayon in the box. I'm the first to admit that stuff often goes way over my head & I'm pretty dingy, but flat-out stupid is something I'm -not-. And I know this isn't the first time someone has actually -thought- this - they just didn't say it out loud or to my face. It's in the way they've spoken to me or treated me or something like that.

But then he went on to say that I'm "street smart" as opposed to "book smart" and I'm like, "wait wut?" .. Just 'cuz I've lived in the ghetto and had my string of jacked up stuff happen to me doesn't mean I'm necessarily street smart. I mean... I guess I sometimes give really good advice (okay. I do. A lot. Someone once dubbed me "The Wise One" and then My Friend P changed it up to "The Wise Ass". haha).. But idk. Someone actually calling me street smart baffles me a lot. I'm still trying to wrap my head around it.

This is another of those rare times that the interwebz has pissed me off/upset me.
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  1. Jinx's Avatar
    It's not the interwebz, it's him. He's an asshole. Drop him as a friend. He's negging you and insulting you to belittle you so you'll want to be with him. You've obviously had this conversation several times, and he doesn't respect your boundaries. He doesn't seem like he's actually your friend--he's just trying to get something from you.
  2. noxious.sunshine's Avatar
    Lol..He -really- doesn't want me to be "with him". He just likes to feel better about himself I guess.

    I'm not trying to take up for anyone, 'cuz this kind of thing just isn't excusable to me. I've let it go .. For now. I didn't go off on him like I normally would. Just because .. I didn't feel like it. I have no energy to argue and fight and go back and forth with people really. So I let it go. I have enough to deal with IRL .

    At the end of the day.. It's still some random person on the internet that I shouldn't get my feathers ruffled over.

    But thanks, Sam. <333