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I've always wondered if it actually works, on facebook there was a slightly slutty girl saying that it works like a charm, Have you ever tried it or do you find it childish, or have you done it unintentionally?
Do you treat someone mean and they come running like a puppy? Or do they go in the opposite direction like a startled fox ? :kakapo:
It works and anybody who says otherwise is fooling themselves.
Doesn't really work as much on females of a higher calibre/intelligence though (SPOILER)But who wants a girlfriend who is smarter than you?.
all women are sluts
It must work, because there's a girl that won't get off my nuts even though I'm such an asshole to her. :mad2:
Every girl is different, but generally they prefer a guy who isn't a pushover.
I actually like being nice to people, but I've learned to keep that sort of crap to myself. People who say nothing but nice things about me (and there are maybe 1 person who isn't mommy) have earned that level of nice-ness from PG
the rest of you can go to hell.
Oh example:
I work with this girl from wires who keeps hitting on me. I want nothing to do with her so I'm outright mean to her. Not mean enough to get in trouble, but I'm not nice like I am to everybody else.
And then there's people I used to be nice to, and then I later decided that their personality / beliefs / reactions to life events are just bad news, so I stop being nice Then it's like OMG PEEE GEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE and I'm like -___________________________-
edit: wtf cause the bou spam? the word 't - h - e - m' ? WTF
test: so I stop being nice to the:bou::bou::bou: Then it's OMG PEEE GEEEEEEEEEEEEE
edit x2: WTF
I find it very difficult to like you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Parker
well, that's me burned
Obvious troll is obvious.
Treat your puppies nice!
Yeah it works. It kinda has that whole alpha male/female thing attached to it, I believe.
Girls or guys. All prefer people with independent means.
I don't do this approach, well I do, but unintentionally. I'm the most insulting and sarcastic person to people that I like, but lads cotton on quick and think it's cute for some reason. I'm not cute, goddamnit. I'm always really honest, if I like someone, I want them to know I like them, in my own little ways, just leads to me always getting burned though; but i'd always rather go down being honest, thinking one day karma will be dead good to me
This. So much this. My whole life.Quote:
Originally Posted by Zeldy
Eh, there's levels. It seems to me anytime it actually works on someone (and it does, more often than I care to admit) it points to them being a fairly vacant individual pointed towards climbing the social ladder. In short, someone I wouldn't consider worth my time.
There was a cool Psych experiment I read about that kinda relates. I forget the name of the scientist or study, but in essence he assigned 10 men and 10 women numbers 1-10 that could be seen by others, but not them. This was their "attractiveness" in the experiment. They were instructed to try to find the most attractive mate they could, and the two mates had to agree to the coupling. What they found was that over all, people tended to land within one or two spots of their own attractiveness value. Based on how dismissive the other people were, vs. how eager the other people were, they were able to gauge their general ranking on the "attractiveness" scale. I'd argue the same thing applies here. If you're an asshole to someone, you may just be giving them an impression that you are higher on the social ladder than them, and it would behoove them to try to sponge some of it off you.
But really, think about that. Is it honestly worth it to abuse a screwed up society wherein assholes are better than nice guys?
Edit: If anyone recognizes the general outline of the experiment and can give me a name or correct any details, I'd be appreciative. It's kinda driving me nuts that I can't remember the specifics.
How funny, that's how the rest of us feel about you. :colbert:Quote:
Originally Posted by Hypoallergenic CactuarI find it very difficult to like you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Parker
You guys make me sad.
I'ma notch both y'alls ears if you don't behave and love each other. Julian, hug your brother.
I wouldn't know because I've always played the honest and nice role. It's just how I am, I don't do it on purpose. I'm like the polar opposite of assertive ._.
Though this hasn't exactly turned a large number of girls away from me, so I'm not complaining.
I'm only a dick to someone if they disrespect me in a way I don't like. If I'm good ofriends with somene I have a pretty high tolerance for it, but if the line is crossed there's just no saving the poor soul. I've made quite a number of enemies (mostly among the self-entitled arrogant group of girls) but I don't really care about them.
But for the most part, I can be way too nice at points, or I'm just too much of a pussy to express myself.
Meh, it's who I am.
I'm generally nice and girls don't really come running after me. and actually my girlfriend said the first time we met she thought I was an asshole. So It must work!
Unfortunately it does work, which is why nice guys like me get very few girls.
Everyone is an asshole to a certain degree, but ultimately I like good-hearted people with a little sardonic humor -- not overboard. There's only so much I can take from someone who is just consistently mean when you aren't to them and most people are perceptive at noticing when someone is a try-hard (trying too hard to be someone they're not) i.e. a badass.
We call those wannabe's, love. Your made-up words are charming.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shiny
Structural abuse is an effective but harmful means of achieving dominance or safety. You can keep people in line with it, but no one comes out of a relationship based on it healthily. It is not recommended.
Different people find different things attractive. Generally though the "treat em mean" approach works well at least in the initial phases of meeting someone. I believe it's because generally speaking it signifies that whilst you want the person, you don't need the person. That is an attractive quality to most people, I met a girl fairly recently who didn't like this approach and yet I found when I was actually nice to her and showed genuine interest we both ended up not wanting the relationship for different reasons which I found pretty ironic.
Generally though being a bit of a flirt I like to make some quips towards people that often seem a little mean to outsiders but yet within the target audience and myself it's quite funny. I find it weird however since there are 2 girls I work/worked with at the moment who I am fairly certain nothing would ever happen with and we spend our entire days making mean comments to each other and yet we get along really well. So I guess even in friendship, this can be true.
Well isn't that the pot being racially insensitive towards the kettle. :greenie:Quote:
Originally Posted by NorthernChaosGodHow funny, that's how the rest of us feel about you. :colbert:Quote:
Originally Posted by Hypoallergenic CactuarI find it very difficult to like you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Parker
I'M AN INTERNET TOUGH GUY LISTEN TO THESE STORIES WHERE I WAS A TOUGH SOB IN FRONT OF MY FEMALES
SO LIKE THIS ONE TIME YEAH I WAS LIKE SO AWESOME
AND THERE'S THIS OTHER TIME TOO!
ASK JULIAN CUZ ONE TIME I BEAT HIM UP WHILE HIS WOMAN CRIED IN THE CORNER AND THEN I WAS LIKE WOMAN I SMOTE YOUR MALE YOU ARE MY MATE
AND THEN I WOKE UP FROM MY DREAM AND CRIED IN A CORNER OVER WHAT WILL NEVER BE
(SPOILER)http://i10.photobucket.com/albums/a1...8858818282.jpgQuote:
Originally Posted by Peegee
If this was true, domestic violence wouldn't be grounds for divorce. :doublecolbert:
Hot Guys: This approach often works and they earn the ranking and honour of "Cheeky Chappy".
Average/Ugly sods: They will probably just think of you as a bit of an arse. You better practice your door-opening proficiency!
If another guy being "alpha" attracts a woman more than my intelligence, personality, sense of humor, and sincerity, then she didn't deserve me anyway. I've done just fine on those grounds. Hell, I've actually got two girlfriends at the moment living under the same roof. Karma ftw?
Prostitutes are only interested in money, CS. :D
two prostitutes tied up in the closet doesn't count as two girlfriends living under one roof, CS. :D
Your right and left hands are not considered people, let alone girlfriends, CS. :D
Pretty sure that fills the quota.
Nobody tells Quin how to run the show. Lucky for you, you don't even have to ask the babes to go out for a ride with you. Why? Because you don't listen to anyone, and if it's your way or the highway, young teen exhibitionists won't think twice about joining the evergrowing "monogamy is for chumps" philosophy. Quin won't tolerate monogamy. Quin don't want it. That's Quin Prison.
Your words cut so deeply. If only there were a woman here, preferably one that I were romantically linked with, to offer me a shoulder to cry on. Oh wait... there are two.
Inflatable "dolls" do NOT COUNT.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cloud Strife777
He can't hear you through all the breasts he's buried his face in.
I totes jelly butthurt mad bruh at CS
Honestly I think it works with some women. my sister is one. She has dumped / refused to date many a nice guy because they were "too nice" according to her, hence boring. She is now married to a guy that isn't a jerk but isn't overly nice to her either and openly flirts with other girls in front of her.
To me it is a complete turnoff. I learned that after i dated a few assholes though, and have the scars to prove it.
Want to go on a date?Quote:
Originally Posted by Renmiri
I'm a nice guy, at least I've been told so.
BTW seriously. I broke up with Lyric so I'm free.
My girlfriend punched me in the nose today :(
Why?
Because she got mad at me. We got into a fight at about 5 am and all hell broke loose for the rest of the day :(
That seems like a lame reason to punch someone in the face. O_o Sorry that happened to you.
Punch her back.
right because... ah forget it it's GCQuote:
Originally Posted by Stiltzquin
LOL RAPE
Don't punch her back, that'll just get you done for domestic violence..No instead take a leaf out of her book. Next time she's really after something, something special like something she really likes and enjoys but makes your life a little less happy to give her. Next time she wants something like a massage, a foot massage because she's been on her feet all day doing whatever it is she's been doing. Refuse her. Point blank look at her and say no, much like how when you do wrong and then want sex/a bj she say's no to you.
Hey, women aren't delicate flowers. They could have had a pretty awesome fight like Mr. and Mrs. Smith, but nooooooooo, Bert had to be all "ooh you can't hit women because they're such weak and feeble and pathetic creatures" and miss out on all that post-attempted murder coitus.
I'd never hit a woman I just got mad and left. I stayed at my moms last night and am going to again tonight. she's all sad and wanting me to come back now.
It took me 5 minutes to think about this to find out what you were babbling about. Are you sure you speak british english?Quote:
Originally Posted by Iceglow
A woman will just not ask you to do something nice. Odds are they won't ask you period but I digress.
Then they will be like I'm going to attack you with a chainsaw and then I have to go and kick them in the face because THAT'S HOW TO CONTROL WOMEN WHITE POWER
I like how I have both advocated and condemned domestic violence in this one thread alone.
But seriously, the decision of hitting a person should be independent of gender. :colbert:
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because THAT'S HOW TO CONTROL WOMEN WHITE POWER
Listen to me guys, i know women. i know all about these mysterious creatures
first of al
*scribbles furiously*Quote:
Originally Posted by Parker
First, harvest many blowjobs.
I like how you're doing both in the same thread too. I think we ought to make a club. Anyhow, I agree the whole decision of hitting a person should be independent of gender. That's why I try not to hit anyone but if I have to if the person is genuinely a threat for example they're honestly likely to kick my arse or actually hurt me? I'll go for the quick victory by dirty tactics.Quote:
Originally Posted by Stiltzquin
A club, you say?Quote:
Originally Posted by Iceglow
I'm pretty sure there's already a "hitting women club". It's called Texas.
ಠ_ಠQuote:
Originally Posted by Stiltzquin
I can't disagree with this statement, as much as I want to.Quote:
Originally Posted by Stiltzquin
whenever i argue with myself against ron paul i use texas as an example of why we need a coercive government.
It can work depending on what kind of relationship you are after. However, I would say a better saying would be "Don't treat them like you NEED TO BE WITH THEM AT EVERY MOMENT, keep them keen." Basically, don't get clingy, because eventually they'll just want to distance themselves from you. They're more likely to be interested in you if they don't have you wrapped around their little finger already.
Oh, come on! Not everyone here hits women!Quote:
Originally Posted by Cloud Strife777I can't disagree with this statement, as much as I want to.Quote:
Originally Posted by Stiltzquin
Yeargy, appear and back me up!
Perhaps instead of asking Yeargy, you should ask his wife.Quote:
Originally Posted by Hypoallergenic CactuarOh, come on! Not everyone here hits women!Quote:
Originally Posted by Cloud Strife777I can't disagree with this statement, as much as I want to.Quote:
Originally Posted by Stiltzquin
Yeargy, appear and back me up!
That is if he'll let her out of the kitchen. *shakes fist at Yearg*
I think you and I are the only exceptions, really.Quote:
Originally Posted by Hypoallergenic Cactuar
That's pretty sad.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cloud Strife777I think you and I are the only exceptions, really.Quote:
Originally Posted by Hypoallergenic Cactuar