That's a bit harsh and definitely overdramatic. Sounds like she's one of those jealous girlfriends.Originally Posted by Dr. Casey
That's a bit harsh and definitely overdramatic. Sounds like she's one of those jealous girlfriends.
Woah. A touch harsh.
Ah, well. At least she's talking to you again.
I WAS RIGHT THE WHOLE TIME! You wait her out and see how crazy she is.That's a bit harsh and definitely overdramatic. Sounds like she's one of those jealous girlfriends.
Holy crap.
What the crap. xD That's... extreme...
Dude, you're whipped now. Congratulations.
Forcing you to destroy your own personal possessions, especially ones that may contain fond memories is just cruel. Then again, you said something really stupid, but this is ridiculous now.
Jesus Christ she's a loon.
I would be very glad that she decided to forget!I'd like to respond to everyone's posts, but that's a bit unmanageable at this point. Many thanks for the comments, everyone. We sorted things out yesterday. She demanded that I delete every messenger conversation I've ever had with Sarah and rip up any picture I owned with her in there (though she allowed me to just cut out certain portions for photographs I really cared for), but all things considered that's not such a bad punishment - when I have the only girl I care about back, what else really matters? I know perfectly well not to do anything like this again, though. What a headache this whole episode was. She made me apologize so many times that I think my voice box is sore.
And you had pictures of that girl? I understand that part, if my bf would have picstures of other girls on his comp I would kill him. But well she went a little far on the chats, but it was just to make sure ^^
Glad everything sorted out
With your insensitivity and her craziness, you could make a sitcom out of your relationship.
"Erase an entire part of your life because I am too insecure and jealous that I cannot even handle thinking about you remembering another girl other than me."
That seems incredibly understandable, yes. My girlfriend and I still discuss our old relationships to the point of reminiscing about them. Hell, she still talks with the first guy she was head-over-heels in love with. It's pretty outrageous for her to even suggest erasing an entire part of your life. And for you to go along with it in hopes that it makes everything better? They call that being whipped and dependent. And now she knows she can get whatever she wants out of you by being overdramatic.
My morally righteous half tells me that it's wrong of us to mock someone who means so much to Casey.
The one that actually views reality says crikey.
Okay, you did make a mistake, but it wasn't any more than a mistake. It was dumb and thoughtless; it does not warrant this kind of demand from her. She's being completely unfair to you now, tbh. I can understand doing it - in all honesty I would probably do it too - but that doesn't mean she's in the right.
I mean seriously. Cutting up pictures that are important to you? Even letting you keep the non-Sarah parts, they will be mutilated.
It's your call, man. Completely your call. If you think this is okay then more power to you, and I hope your relationship works out. But I think it's pretty extreme.
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I have to stick up for the girlfriend here, to a point. Considering Dr. Casey's initial comment about Sarah, I too would want him to get rid of all of the pictures, etc. If they were still around both of them will be reliving this episode over and over again every time they see a picture of her. Dr. Casey's girlfriend might be a bit on the insecure side, but that also probably has a lot to do with Dr. Casey's actions. Such as the comment he made originally. Of course, being so insecure is not very healthy, but that is something that can be outgrown the more she get to trusts Dr. Casey.
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I suppose you're right. Wise words, Leeza
Also, I like that the drama of this relationship has gotten us all worked up this much xD
there was a picture here
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