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    Default Why do you dometimes dislike people for no certain reason?

    We all have experienced it: you meet this new acquaintance, and for some weird reason you realize you really don't like the person.
    You got no real reasons to dislike him/her either, you just do.
    I experience this right now: my little brother got this new girlfriend, and she's visiting every now and then, e.g. right now.
    Every time she's visiting, I feel very annoyed, and I always wish that she could just get outta here; I honestly can't stand her.
    Her mere presence annoys me, and the whole thing is pretty funny.
    I mean, she's even hot, and since I don't know her personality too much, her hotness should give her some kind of boost towards me, but it doesn't - I still dislike her.
    I think it's got to do with her incredibly silent attitude, she never says anything and never surprises me with changing that behaviour.
    Anyway, that reason is not certain, it's just a wild guess of mine.
    Besides, I usually don't mind silent people, as I'm pretty silent myself by nature.
    I don't know why I dislike her so much, I just do.

    I find this very weird, and very interesting.
    Why the heck would you feel annoyed by people, if you got no clear reason?

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    YOU DUN NEED A REASON TO HATE.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Christmas View Post
    YOU DUN NEED A REASON TO HATE.

    ~ Christmas, Member 15004 of Eyes on Final Fantasy Forums.
    This post tickles my fancy. :oscar:

    And I don't like many people that I meet, and the people that I like at first and I become friends, I usually end up disliking sooner or later. That's just how I am. xD I'm very picky when it comes to close friends, but when I do find a close friend, it's very nice.


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    I only hate people for reasons I can understand. I normally hate people for being stupid. Ironically, I've only heard them say something incorrect once, and I channelled my hatred towards them so much, that things I normally agree with, I now DISagree with! Then, when they found out how wrong they were that one time, I disagreed with THAT too!

    In conclusion, I'm stupid. I hate myself for reasons I no longer can understand. I hate it when that happens. =)

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    sometimes because they remind you of some tosser you lready know, or they have certain features that you usually associate with people you dont like. i dont like many "jocks" because having played rugby myself and being at best average, i constantly was teased and annoyed for only making the 3rds.

    so if someone comes up and introduces themselves with a smug smirk and looks like a jock, then ill probably dislike him, at least until i get to know him that is.

    Stupid assumption, but its what i do.


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    It's possible to just not like the look of someone or just from what your initial impression was. You can't always put it down to a specific reason just a certain feeling of dislike towards them. Either that or someone could just be having a bad day when they met someone initially and that's what has contributed to the dislike.
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    I dunno. Maybe it's them, giving off a somewhat bad first impression -- it's very easy to stereotype and categorize, after all Or maybe I'm just in a bad mood and feeling cynical and anti-social. My bad, then.
    This subliminal message could be meant for YOU. But it's probably not. Move along ;D

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    I know exactly what you're talking about, Peter_20. I know this kid Josh. He's sorta my friend but I hate his guts! I don't know why either.

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    I never hate without a reason. Doesn't have to be a good one, but not without a reason.

    But I do hate anyone younger than fourteen, because, pre-teenage years are the epitome of annoying.

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    There's too many of them...

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    I'm turning into a hippy as I say this but...I automatically like everyone, even if I haven't met the person. They have to earn my hate.

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    I have an open mind about everyone I meet really. It's everyone else who really hates me for no real reason. What fun. B)

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    I believe first impressions and jealousy plays into factor with disliking someone you hardly know
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    Sometimes it may be something they say that I 100% dont agree with. Sounds petty I know. That or they just give off a feeling I dislike.

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    because they try to touch my special place when I don't want them too.

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