FFII, III, V, VIII, XI and XII. Basically any game in the series that doesn't have a ridiculously overzealous fanbase. At least these fans tend to have the ability to actually look past the nostalgia of their games and see them for what they are worth and not paint them as "best of times" bullcrap that goes into all the other entries.

Not counting the numbered entries. I'll give it to Tactics Advance cause it also gets nailed with the kitty moniker despite having a fairly mature story (with kids!). Its not as solid or as balanced as Tactics but its a better game than the haters give it credit for.

I'd also put down the original Crystal Chronicles. Ignoring the hardware flaws, it was an excellent multiplayer game and really brought back fond memories of the Mana series for me.