Under what logic? I feel like the date should order whatever they want.
Honestly though, good luck Fox! I have only ever gone on dates with Mr. Carny, and you can barely call them dates because of a hilarious set of circumstances that basically meant we were going out before our first date.
Honestly, I don't have any real advice here. I know if I was going on a date with someone, I'd find it rude if the other person only ever talked about themselves, but that's just me; others might be different. Find some common ground and shared interests. That's always a good start.